The ultimate destination for modern adult lifestyle, romance merchandise, and bespoke event planning.
We help you ditch the routine and bring genuine playfulness back into your relationship with curated products, incredible date nights, and immersive experiences designed for adults who want more.
Modern romance often feels routine and sterile. I started THIS THAT RAW to bring playfulness and genuine human connection back to adult relationships. By combining curated romance merchandise, bespoke event planning, and interactive experiences, I design environments and products that help adults over 21 reclaim intimacy without judgment.
I select adult lifestyle products and intimacy tools focused on quality and aesthetic appeal, ensuring every item supports genuine connection.
I design anniversary takeovers, private adult celebrations, and custom date nights tailored to personal relationship dynamics.
I create guided games and immersive activations using sensory branding and theatrical elements to deepen engagement.
I bridge the gap between tangible romance goods and immersive events so every touchpoint feels authentic and personal.
High-quality adult lifestyle products and intimacy tools selected for their aesthetic appeal and ability to spark real desire.





Custom-designed date nights, anniversaries, and private adult celebrations crafted to be unforgettable and deeply personal.





We do things a little differently around here. Instead of dry planning or random products, we build whole experiences around your real desires.
Adult lifestyle goods and tools chosen for actual quality, good design, and how they feel in your hands.
Unforgettable date nights, anniversaries, and private adult celebrations built from scratch for just the two of you or your crew.
Guided games and immersive setups made to get you talking, laughing, and connecting on a deeper level.
A simple four-step workflow from your first idea all the way to the final reveal, making every detail effortless.
Intimacy is an art form, and we believe modern romance deserves to be rescued from the boring and the routine. By bringing play, edge, and deep human connection back into your private world, we help you trade sterile clichés for experiences that actually matter.
Stop letting daily noise drain the fun out of your relationship. We give you the tools and the blueprints to make date nights feel electric again.
Every product and intimacy tool we offer is chosen for real quality and serious aesthetic appeal, so you never have to settle for cheap novelties.
Whether it is a private anniversary takeover or an upscale social gathering, we design unforgettable spaces that honor the depth of adult desires.
Instead of disjointed products and generic parties, we bridge the gap between tangible merchandise and immersive planning so everything flows naturally.
Marcus Vance
Midnight Velvet completely transformed our tenth anniversary. The hotel suite styling and sensory products brought back a spark we thought we had lost.